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Dame Pom — Flexible External Clit Vibrator

Premium external stimulator with a soft and flexible body
Ergonomic shape is designed to nestle within the palm of your hand and its tactile, intuitive controls make it super easy to use no matter if you are a beginner or an advance user
Designed by people with vulvas for people with vulvas using only the highest quality materials

$165.00 AUD

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Pom Flexible Vibrator with Ergonomic Design

The Pom vibrator by Dame offers a uniquely flexible, palm-sized design that adjusts to your movements for targeted or broad stimulation. Equipped with a powerful motor, it features five intensity levels and patterns, medical-grade silicone, and a discreet, ergonomic shape for ultimate comfort and ease of use. Its waterproof, USB-rechargeable construction ensures versatility, making it perfect for beginners and experienced users alike.

Features:

5 intensity levels and 5 vibration patterns
Medical-grade silicone and waterproof design
Compact dimensions: 3.25” x 2.2” x 1.2”
1-hour runtime on the highest setting
Magnetic USB charging

Benefits:

Conforms to your body for personalized stimulation
Compact and travel-friendly for discretion
Soft, pliable material enhances comfort
Waterproof
USB Rechargeable

Sizes:

Dimensions: 3.25” x 2.2” x 1.2”

Materials:

Medical-grade silicone

Uses:

Targeted stimulation
Broad stimulation
Solo or partnered play

Free shipping for orders over $100 (Australia only)
Orders are dispatched within 1-3 business days.
All items are located within Australia.
You will receive an email confirmation once your order has been dispatched with your order number and shipping method.
If stock needs to be sent from more than one warehouse, you will receive multiple packages with multiple tracking numbers.
All intimate products are shipped with discreet packaging.
If you require products urgently, please contact us directly to confirm the stock location so that we can endeavor to process and dispatch your order as a priority.

Change of Mind Purchases

Due to the intimate nature of our products, we do not accept returns or exchanges for change-of-mind purchases.

The exception for this is SRC Health Products

SRC Recovery garments must be returned within 30 days of purchase
SRC Non recovery products must be returned within 14 days of purchase
All items are required to be returned in their original unworn condition, with their garment tags and labels in place.
Shipping costs are non-refundable.
To initiate a SRC Health product return, please contact hello@blossompelvichealth.com.au for further instructions

Faulty / Damaged Item

If an item is faulty or damaged, please contact us immediately at hello@blossompelvichealth.com.au so that we can resolve the issue as soon as possible.

Incorrect Order

If you receive an incorrect order, please contact us immediately at hello@blossompelvichealth.com.au so that we can resolve the issue as soon as possible.

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Dame Pom Australia | Palm-Sized Clitoral Vibrator for Sexual Wellness

Discover Dame Pom, a flexible palm-sized vibrator designed for clitoral pleasure and pelvic health. Medical-grade silicone, waterproof, rechargeable.

The Dame Pom is a compact, palm-sized external vibrator made from medical-grade silicone, designed for clitoral and vulvar stimulation. It's entirely external (it doesn't go inside the body), which makes it a great option for people who prefer or need non-penetrative stimulation, including those managing pelvic pain, vaginismus, or vulvar sensitivity.

What sets the Pom apart is its flexibility. Most vibrators have a rigid internal frame, but the Pom is constructed almost entirely from soft silicone with a small, powerful motor embedded inside. The whole body can bend, flex, and conform to the contours of your vulva and clitoris without you needing to constantly reposition it. It nestles into your palm and moves with your body rather than against it.

The Pom has five intensity levels and five vibration patterns, giving you 25 possible combinations. The vibrations are rumbly rather than buzzy, meaning they resonate deeper into tissue and tend to feel more satisfying for sustained clitoral stimulation.

At Blossom Pelvic Health, we stock the Dame Pom because it aligns with our clinical approach to product selection. It prioritises comfort, body safety, and versatility, qualities that matter when we're recommending intimate products for people across a wide range of pelvic health situations. Whether you're using it for solo pleasure, partnered intimacy, or as part of rebuilding arousal and sensation after hormonal changes or pelvic pain, the Pom is a well-designed, body-safe tool we feel confident recommending.

Most vibrators on the market have a rigid internal skeleton that holds a fixed shape. The Pom's body is nearly all silicone. It can bend almost in half without breaking or losing structural integrity. This matters clinically because it lets you customise pressure without repositioning. If you have clitoral sensitivity, you can use a lighter touch. If you need more pressure, you can cup it firmly against your body. The flexibility adapts to your anatomy rather than requiring you to adapt to the device.

For people with pelvic pain or vulvar conditions, a rigid vibrator pressing on a tender area can be uncomfortable or triggering. The Pom moves with the body rather than against it, making it far more suitable for therapeutic use.

The finger-like flexibility means you can maintain skin-to-skin-like contact. Users describe it as the closest a vibrator comes to the feel of a hand. This is particularly valued by people who've experienced pelvic trauma or who are rebuilding their relationship with their body. The flexible silicone construction also means there are no hard edges or pressure points, which reduces the risk of localised discomfort or nerve irritation.

Many people report that the Pom feels less like a "device" and more like a natural extension of touch, which can be psychologically significant for those working through intimacy challenges or pelvic floor dysfunction. The ergonomic grip is designed for extended use without hand fatigue, which is particularly important for people who experience slower arousal cycles or who need longer sessions. Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, the Pom's adaptable shape accommodates a wide range of preferences and anatomies without constant repositioning.

External vibrators like the Pom can be helpful for people with pelvic pain or hypertonic (overactive or tight) pelvic floor muscles, though individual responses vary. Research published in the International Urogynecology Journal (Dubinskaya et al., 2024) found that vibrator use was associated with improved sexual function and significantly reduced pain scores in women aged 18 to 80 at three-month follow-up. Vibrations have a relaxing effect on the nervous system and pelvic floor muscles, improving circulation and promoting tissue relaxation. Vibration activates proprioceptive pathways, providing non-threatening sensory input to the pelvic floor region.

For people with hypertonic pelvic floors, external clitoral vibration can help the brain-body connection by reintroducing pleasurable, non-threatening sensory input to an area that may have become associated with pain or guarding. The pelvic floor muscles often tighten as a protective reflex when an area has experienced pain, trauma, or stress. Gentle, enjoyable sensations can help signal safety to the nervous system and allow those muscles to let go.

That said, vibration isn't appropriate for everyone. Some people with vulvodynia, provoked vestibulodynia, or nerve sensitivity find vibration irritating rather than soothing. We always recommend discussing vibrator use with your pelvic health physiotherapist before incorporating it into your management plan. Your physio can assess your specific condition and advise on whether external vibration is suitable, and if so, how best to incorporate it.

Many people with hypertonic pelvic floors find that gentle external vibration helps encourage tissue relaxation over time, which can complement manual therapy techniques prescribed by your physiotherapist. The Pom's lower intensity settings deliver subtle stimulation that can be used during relaxation breathing exercises, helping your nervous system associate the pelvic region with comfort rather than guarding or tension.

Yes, external vibrators like the Dame Pom can be very helpful for arousal difficulty during menopause and postpartum. During menopause, declining oestrogen levels reduce blood flow to the clitoris and vulva, decrease nerve sensitivity, and can make arousal slower or harder to achieve. A clit vibrator provides rhythmic stimulation that increases blood flow to the genital area, helps re-sensitise nerve endings, and supports the brain-body arousal connection. The rumbly vibrations (rather than buzzy ones) penetrate deeper into tissue and tend to feel more satisfying for clitoral stimulation. Clinical evidence supports this approach as a legitimate tool for managing menopausal changes in sexual function.

Postpartum, hormonal shifts (particularly elevated prolactin during breastfeeding) suppress oestrogen, causing dryness, reduced sensation, and difficulty with arousal. Many new mothers feel disconnected from their bodies after pregnancy and birth, and reintroducing gentle external stimulation with a flexible, low-pressure vibrator like the Pom can be a good way to rebuild that connection without pressure or expectation.

The Pom's five intensity levels allow you to start very gently and increase gradually as comfort allows. Always follow your healthcare provider's guidance on when it's safe to resume sexual activity postpartum, typically a minimum of six weeks after delivery, and longer if you've had significant perineal trauma or a caesarean section.

Using the Pom in the early postpartum period can be part of a sensate focus approach, helping you reconnect with pleasure and sensation at your own pace. The range of intensities lets you begin with barely perceptible stimulation and gradually build as your body responds. This is particularly valuable during perimenopause and menopause, when tissue sensitivity can fluctuate significantly from day to day.

The Dame Pom features five intensity levels and five vibration patterns, giving you 25 possible combinations. This range lets you customise your experience based on mood, sensitivity, and preference. We recommend starting at the lowest intensity and working up gradually, particularly if you're new to vibrators. Many people are surprised at how effective lower intensities can be, and starting conservatively helps you understand what your body prefers.

The vibrations are rumbly rather than buzzy, and this distinction matters. Rumbly vibrations penetrate deeper into tissue and tend to feel more satisfying and effective for clitoral stimulation, while buzzy vibrations stay on the surface and can cause numbness more quickly with prolonged use.

The motor in the Pom is Dame's most powerful in the compact range, which means it delivers strong stimulation even at lower settings. Controls are straightforward: buttons cycle through intensities and patterns, making operation easy once you're familiar with the layout. Some users note it's possible to accidentally change the intensity during use due to hand placement, so it's worth getting to know the button layout before first use.

A helpful feature: the Pom remembers your last-used setting when turned off and on again, so you don't need to cycle back to your preferred intensity every time. The range from a gentle hum to a deeper, more powerful vibration means the Pom can adapt as your preferences change over time or even within a single session. Many users find that starting on a lower setting and gradually increasing intensity produces better results than jumping straight to a high setting, as it allows the body's arousal response to build naturally.

Dame Pom — Flexible External Clit Vibrator