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Dame Com — Compact External Wand Vibrator

Dame's take on the classic wand shape, upgraded for comfort and easy handling
External massager - delivers strong, rumbly vibrations.
Premium quality medical grade silione

$174.95 AUD

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Com Wand Vibrator with Flexible Neck and Rumbly Vibrations

The Com Wand Vibrator is a cutting-edge external massager designed to deliver intense and deeply satisfying vibrations. Its flexible neck adapts effortlessly to your body, making it perfect for targeted or broad stimulation. Made from medical-grade silicone, it’s waterproof, rechargeable, and offers 5 intensity levels and patterns to suit your every mood. Compact yet powerful, Com is ideal for both intimate and full-body massage, blending comfort and performance with a sleek, ergonomic design.

Features:

Powerful motor for deep, rumbly vibrations
Flexible neck for optimal comfort and reach
Medical-grade silicone and waterproof design

Benefits:

Enhanced relaxation and stress relief
Customizable patterns and intensities for a tailored experience
Durable, body-safe materials for long-lasting use

Sizes:

Dimensions: 10.5” L x 1.75” W x 3.5” D

Materials:

Medical-grade silicone

Uses:

Clitoral stimulation
Full-body massage
Stress relief

Free shipping for orders over $100 (Australia only)
Orders are dispatched within 1-3 business days.
All items are located within Australia.
You will receive an email confirmation once your order has been dispatched with your order number and shipping method.
If stock needs to be sent from more than one warehouse, you will receive multiple packages with multiple tracking numbers.
All intimate products are shipped with discreet packaging.
If you require products urgently, please contact us directly to confirm the stock location so that we can endeavor to process and dispatch your order as a priority.

Change of Mind Purchases

Due to the intimate nature of our products, we do not accept returns or exchanges for change-of-mind purchases.

The exception for this is SRC Health Products

SRC Recovery garments must be returned within 30 days of purchase
SRC Non recovery products must be returned within 14 days of purchase
All items are required to be returned in their original unworn condition, with their garment tags and labels in place.
Shipping costs are non-refundable.
To initiate a SRC Health product return, please contact hello@blossompelvichealth.com.au for further instructions

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Dame Com Australia | Flexible Wand Vibrator for Sexual Wellness

Discover the Dame Com flexible wand vibrator. Medical-grade silicone, powerful motor, bendable neck. Learn how it works, cleaning tips & pelvic health benefits.

The Dame Com is an external wand vibrator built for clitoral and vulvar stimulation. Wand vibrators have been around since the 1960s and remain the most powerful category of vibrator on the market, delivering broad, deep stimulation across the whole vulva rather than pinpointed clit-only contact. The Com updates that classic format in several practical ways: it weighs under 280 grams (compared to 560+ for traditional wands), has a curved ergonomic handle that follows the body's contours, and is constructed entirely from medical-grade silicone rather than hard plastic or rubber.

Five intensity levels and five vibration patterns give you 25 combinations. The three-button control system (power/pattern, intensity up, intensity down) is far more intuitive than the single-button designs you'll find on most competitors. The motor is Dame's most powerful, and the vibrations are rumbly rather than buzzy, meaning they resonate deeper into tissue rather than staying on the surface.

At Blossom, we stock the Com for people who need stronger stimulation than a compact clit vibrator can deliver. That includes people experiencing reduced sensitivity from menopause, SSRIs, or age-related nerve changes. The lightweight design and ergonomic handle make it practical for extended use without hand fatigue, and the all-silicone construction is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. Dame backs it with a three-year warranty.

If you've tried smaller vibrators and found them underwhelming, or if your sensitivity has changed and you need more power to reach arousal, the Com is worth considering. It fills a specific gap in the range that the Pom and Aer aren't designed to address.

This is one of the main clinical reasons we carry the Dame Com. A range of conditions and medications affect clitoral and vulvar sensitivity, making stronger stimulation necessary for arousal and pleasure. Menopause reduces blood flow and nerve sensitivity as oestrogen declines. SSRIs and other antidepressants commonly decrease sensation as a side effect. Diabetes can affect nerve function, and certain neurological conditions alter sensory perception. Some people also simply have naturally lower sensitivity thresholds and have always needed stronger stimulation.

In these situations, a compact clit vibrator like the Pom may not provide enough. The Com's powerful motor and broad stimulation pattern reach deeper nerve endings in the vulva and clitoris. The rumbly, low-frequency vibrations are different from the high-pitched buzzing of many smaller vibrators, and for people accustomed to traditional wands, this deeper frequency tends to be more effective.

Research increasingly supports the use of stronger external vibration for sexual pleasure and function, particularly for people whose sensitivity has shifted due to age, medication, or health changes.

We recommend starting at lower intensity levels and increasing gradually to find your preferred setting. Many people discover that once they've used a more powerful vibrator, they prefer it for the speed of arousal and the quality of orgasm. The Com is designed to be that reliable, powerful tool in your intimate health kit.

If you're unsure whether reduced sensitivity is contributing to difficulty with arousal or orgasm, a pelvic health physiotherapist can help assess what's going on and advise on the most appropriate tools and strategies.

Pelvic health physiotherapists increasingly recognise that external vibration can support pelvic floor muscle relaxation, particularly for people with hypertonic (overactive or chronically tight) pelvic floors. Vibration promotes blood flow and can help override the nervous system's tendency to hold tension, a mechanism sometimes called reciprocal inhibition.

For people with pelvic floor dysfunction, high-tone pelvic floor disorder, or pain-related pelvic floor tension, gentle external vibration can be a useful tool alongside physiotherapy, relaxation techniques, and stress management. The Com's motor makes it suitable for this if you prefer or need stronger stimulation to get that relaxation response.

We recommend starting at intensity level one or two and focusing on broader stimulation across the vulva rather than direct clitoral contact, as this tends to be more soothing. The rumbly quality of the Com's vibration is particularly good for relaxation work. It has a deeper, more resonant feel that many people find calming compared to high-frequency buzzing, which can sometimes feel activating rather than settling.

Some people incorporate wand vibration into their downtraining routine (pelvic floor relaxation exercises) to teach their muscles what full relaxation actually feels like. If you're working with a pelvic health physiotherapist on relaxation or downtraining, discuss using the Com as part of your home programme. Your physio can give specific guidance on intensity, duration, and positioning to get the most therapeutic benefit.

This approach is supported by growing clinical evidence and is something we see recommended more frequently in practice.

The Magic Wand Rechargeable is the benchmark wand vibrator. It's been a bestseller since the 1960s (originally sold as a back massager) and remains the gold standard for power and rumbling depth in many people's experience. It delivers extraordinarily deep vibrations with a large 2.25-inch broad head, making it effective for people who want intense stimulation. The downsides: it weighs over 560 grams, has a rigid handle that doesn't follow body contours, and can cause hand and arm fatigue during longer use. It's also notoriously loud.

The Dame Com is lighter (under 280 grams), has a curved ergonomic handle, offers more vibration patterns, runs significantly quieter, and is made entirely from body-safe medical-grade silicone. For maximum raw power, the Magic Wand may deliver slightly deeper vibration, but the Com is substantially more practical for most people in terms of weight, noise, and usability.

Other wand competitors like Doxy and We-Vibe vary in quality and price. The Doxy is heavier and more expensive. Most others are either less powerful or less durable over time. The Com hits a strong balance of power, durability (three-year warranty), ergonomic design, and price.

If you've used traditional wands and loved them but found them heavy or loud, the Com will feel like a real upgrade. If you're new to wand vibrators, the Com is a solid starting point because it's less intimidating than the Magic Wand and more intuitive to use. Dame designed the Com with clinical input, prioritising both pleasure and pelvic health, which sets it apart from traditional wands engineered for a different market.

The Com has five intensity levels and five vibration patterns, giving you 25 possible combinations. The three-button control system is straightforward: one button controls power and cycles through patterns, one increases intensity, one decreases it. You can adjust intensity within any pattern without restarting or cycling back through everything.

The five patterns include steady vibration (which most people find most effective for arousal and orgasm) and four pulsing/wave patterns at varying rhythms and speeds. This range lets you find what works best on any given day, since sensitivity and preferences shift naturally with hormonal cycles, stress levels, and other factors.

The intensity range is well graduated. Level one is surprisingly gentle, useful for relaxation work or when sensitivity is heightened. Level five delivers maximum power. If you're new to powerful external vibrators, starting around level two or three and adjusting from there tends to work well.

The pulsing patterns offer a rhythmic alternative to steady vibration. Some people prefer them; others stick with steady vibration throughout. Having options adds to the product's longevity because your preferences may shift over time.

The control system is a notable step up from traditional wands, which typically have a single button and less precise control. This makes the Com more flexible for people who like to fine-tune their experience. The Com also remembers your last-used setting when you turn it back on, so you don't have to cycle through to your preferred intensity every time.

Dame Com — Compact External Wand Vibrator